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Building Bridges To Recovery
A successful drug or
alcohol intervention has three critical
ingredients. The first ingredient is choosing
the right interventionist. Spencer Interventions
has a diverse staff to meet a variety of
client needs. We can match the interventionist
with your circumstances and will select
a staff member your loved one or co-worker/
employee can relate to. The second ingredient
is your willingness to confront the addict,
with the help of the interventionist, in
a loving and rigorously honest manner. The
third ingredient is your commitment to follow
through with consequences for the addict
if he should decide not to accept help through
the intervention.
With these ingredients
in place, our interventionists will walk
with you through a 10 Step process which
forms the basis for all interventions:
Alcohol and Drug Intervention Guideline #1: Don't protect the addict or
alcoholic
Attempts to make
excuses or bail out an addict can backfire.
Letting them experience the consequences
of their own actions can often help motivate
the addict to stop using drugs.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #2: Don't enable the addict or
alcoholic
Never reward an
addict by paying bills, bailing them out
of jail, letting them stay for free or ignoring
their negative behaviors.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #3: Find the right time to approach
Select a time to
talk with the addict when he is sober. Arranging
the intervention shortly after the immediate
effects of a drug or alcohol binge have
worn off often is suggested. The entire
intervention party needs to be focused and
calm.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #4: Find strength in numbers
Enlist the support
of family members, relatives and friends
in confronting the addict as a group, selecting
one person to be the initial spokesperson.
Remember, the idea is to make it safe for
him to come clean and seek help.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #5: Be honest
Tell the addict
or alcoholic that you are concerned about
his addiction and want to be supportive
for him while he gets help. Support your
concern with examples of the ways in which
his abuse has caused problems for you, the
family or the workplace, including any recent
incidents.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #6: Set consequences for not getting
help
Make sure the addict
knows that until they get help, you will
leave them to the consequences of their
behavior and will no longer bail them out.
They need to know that any support you are
offering them that may be enabling their
addictive behavior is going to stop. There
may also be other consequences which could
include their spouse leaving, the police
stepping in or the loss of their job. Make
it clear that you are not trying to punish
the addict, but protecting yourself and
other loved ones from the harmful effects
of addiction.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #7: Listen to the addict
During the intervention,
the addict might ask questions regarding
potential treatment. Listen! These questions
are a sign that they are reaching for help.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #8: Be prepared
If the addict is
ready to take action, don't wait. Once he's
agrees to go into rehab, work immediately
to get him admitted into rehab. Prior to
the drug intervention, pack him a bag, make
travel arrangements and ensure they have
acceptance into a good drug rehab program.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #9: Find a reputable rehab facility
In most cases the
short term goal of an intervention is to
get the addict into a rehab center. Our
interventionists can help identify the right
facility for you, help you make arrangements
to admit the addict and even accompany the
addict to the facility.
Alcohol and Drug Intervention
Guideline #10: Don't give Up
An addict will typically
refuse help time and time again. If the
addict refuses help, don't give up. Be supportive
and don't enable or allow their behavior.
Listen whenever you can and be ready to
help the addict into a recovery program
when they are ready.
For more information
on how we can help you set up an alcohol
or drug intervention for your loved one
Please call us now. Our professional and
caring alcohol and drug intervention specialists
are available 24 hours a day for a confidential
and free consultation. They're waiting for
your call.
Toll Free
1-800-399-3612
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